[转载]一个幸福家庭必备的五个基本要素

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一、沟通

????狮子和老虎之间爆发了一场激烈的战争,到了最后,两败俱伤。
????狮子快要断气的时候对老虎说:“如果不是你非要抢我的地盘,我们也不会弄成现在这样。”老虎吃惊地说:“我从未想过要抢你的地盘,我一直以为是你要侵略我!”

????观点:相互沟通是维系家庭幸福的一个关键要素。有什么话不要憋在肚子里,多同家里人交流,也让家里人多了解自己,这样可以避免许多无谓的误会和矛盾。

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二、信任

????两只鸟在一起生活,雄鸟采集了满满一巢果仁让雌鸟保存,由于天气干燥,果仁脱水变小,一巢果仁看上去只剩下原来的一半。
????雄鸟以为是雌鸟偷吃了,就把它啄死了,过了几天,下了几场雨后,空气湿润了,果仁又涨成满满的一巢。这时雄鸟十分后悔地说:“是我错怪了雌鸟!”

????观点:家庭成员之间要相互信任,很多幸福的家庭就毁于怀疑和猜忌。所以,对家人要保持信任,不要让猜疑毁了家庭的幸福。

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三、慎重

????两只乌鸦在树上对骂起来,它们越骂越凶,越吵越激动,最后一只乌鸦随手捡起一样东西向另一只乌鸦打去。
???那东西击中另一只乌鸦后碎裂开来,这时丢东西的乌鸦才发现,自己打出去的东西原来是自己一只尚未孵化好的蛋。

????观点:在家里,遇到事情要冷静对待,尤其是遇到问题和矛盾时,要保持理智,不可冲动,冲动不仅不能解决问题,反而会使问题变得更糟,最后受损失的还是整个家庭。

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四、换位

????小羊请小狗吃饭,它准备了一桌鲜嫩的青草,结果小狗勉强吃了两口就再也吃不下去了。
????过了几天,小狗请小羊吃饭,小狗想:我不能像小羊那样小气,我一定要用最丰盛的宴席来招待它。于是小狗准备了一桌上好的排骨,结果小羊一口也吃不下去。

??观点:有时候,已之所欲,也勿施于人。凡事不要把自己的想法强加给家人,遇到问题的时候多进行一下换位思考,站在对方的角度上想想,这样,你会更好地理解家人。

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五、快乐

????小猪开始学做蛋糕,但它做出的蛋糕总是不好吃。它问公鸡师傅,公鸡想想,问它做蛋糕的原料是什么。小猪说,为了怕浪费,它做蛋糕用的全是一些快要坏了的鸡蛋,
????公鸡对小猪说:“记住,只有用好的原料才能做出好的蛋糕。”

????观点:是的,只有用好的原料才能做出好的蛋糕,同样地,只有用快乐的心情才能构建起幸福的家庭。所以,进家门之前,请把在外面的烦恼通通抛掉,带一张笑脸回家。如果所有的家庭成员都能这样做,那麽这个家一定会成为一个最幸福的家庭。

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