[转载]可惜不是你

可惜不是你

终究,终究时间会带走一切。?
到底是什么让我们松开了彼此握紧的手,
到底是什么让我们放弃了自己,放弃了对方。?
会一直说真的没什么,然后又对着别人的故事沉默。?
表面终会归于平静,只是内心的波涛汹涌又有谁能知道。?
也只有我们自己才明白谁是我们真正爱的人,谁又是伤了我们的人。?
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只是这样的话听着都会觉得很感伤,最终执手终老的人终究不是最初的那一个。?
所以最后的最后,当我们都有了归属,你只能是我记忆中的模糊的剪影。
一个女人突然决绝的跟相爱五年的男友分了手,闪电般嫁了他人。
她说她要结婚她实在等不起了,而他虽然爱她,却根本没有一点这方面的意思。
过了几年,男人也结婚了。
那个新娘其实未必比她出色多少,或者这一次他的爱有多么深,
只不过她出现的时机实在太好,刚刚好在他萌生倦意想安定下来的时候。
于是,不需要什么更好的理由了,她来得正是时候,那么,就是她了。
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其实我们寻寻觅觅了那么久,遍尝每一次爱情的甜蜜与艰辛,
而最后选择的爱人,不过就是在我们心意动时,经过身边的那一个。
什么青梅竹马,什么心有灵犀,什么一见钟情,都不过是些锦上添花的借口,
时间才是冥冥中一切的主宰。

回首往事的时候,想起那些如流星般划过生命的爱情,
我们常常会把彼此的错过归咎为缘分。
其实说到底,缘分是那么虚幻抽象的一个概念,
真正影响我们的,往往就是那一时三刻相遇与相爱的时机。

男女之间的交往,充满了犹疑忐忑的不确定与欲言又止的矜持,
一个小小的变数,就可以完全改变选择的方向。
如果你出现的早一点,也许他就不会和另一个人十指紧扣;
又或者相遇的再晚一点,
晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢学会了包容和体谅,善待和妥协,
也许走到一起的时候,就不会那么轻易的放弃,任性的转身,放走了爱情。

在你最美丽的时候,你遇见了谁??
在你深爱一个人的时候,他又陪在谁身边??
在你心灵最脆弱的时候,又是谁在与他同行??
爱情到底给了你多少时间,去相遇和分离,去选择和后悔?

重温《大话西游》,
看到紫霞深爱至尊宝的时候,他心心念念的寻找他的白晶晶,
而当他终于看到了她留在心里的那一滴泪,却已经失去了选择的权利。
每一次看到他潜入另一个人的身体,去偿还前世欠她的一句承诺,
再看他在夕阳下孤独的走远,总是情不自禁的想要落泪。
不是不心动,不是不后悔,但已经没有时间,再去相拥。


如果爱一个人而无法在一起;
相爱却无法在适当的时间相遇;?
如果你爱了,却爱不对时间,除了珍藏那一滴心底的泪,无言的走远,你又能有什么选择??
时间的荒野,没有早一步也没有晚一步,
于千万人之中,去邂逅自己的爱人,那是太难得的缘分,
更多的时候,我们只是在彼此不断的错过,错过了杨花飘飞的春,又错过了枫叶瑟索的秋,
直到漫天白雪,年华不再,在一次次的心酸感叹之后,才能终于了解——
——即使真挚,即使亲密,即使两个人都已是心有戚戚,我们的爱,依然需要时间来成全和考验。?

这世界有着太多这样那样的限制与隐秘的禁忌,
又有太多难以预测的变故和身不由己的离离合合,
一个转身,也许就已经一辈子错过。?
多年以后,才会参透所有的争取和努力,都抵不过命运开的一个玩笑。
上帝在云端只眨了一眨眼,所有的结局,就都已经完全改变

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