[转载]败给距离的爱

有人说过,就绝对不是毫无道理!!
1、表达障碍
短信听不到语气,电话看不到表情。
我说我没生气..你相信了..???????我哭了..你看不见..
2、共同语言
如果两个人在一起,两个人的交往圈会融为共同的圈子,话题永远都在更新。
而不在一起的两个人,对彼此身边的环境都会因陌生而逐渐失去兴趣,慢慢的,能说的话只有空洞的‘我想你’。
亲爱的、我在努力找话题呢,不要回信说‘哦、嗯、好’了好吗?
3、不安全感
看了10次手机了,你还是没有回信。你在哪、和谁、在干什么?
刚刚拒绝了别人的好意,却禁不住想,你身边的莺莺燕燕,一如我身边的花花草草吗?
4、远水不救近火
我这里下雨了,来送伞的是同学的弟弟;我吃饭忘带钱了,来解围的是朋友的朋友。
原来你不吭声是因为你生病了,可我再担忧,也不能在你身边端一杯水呢。
5、距离产生幻觉
其实我有些小虚荣,照片有时候修掉了痘痘才给你看;其实你有些小自负,认定了的事情就以为自己一定对。
为了大老远的爱你,我拒绝接受身边一切说你不好的言论,什么都往好的方向想。你也是吧。
其实我们都不是对方想象的那样好。
6、距离产生误会
我兴冲冲地发短信给你讲刚刚的趣事,你隔了半天说‘噢’。
我不知道你在忙嘛,所以我生闷气了。
你给我发了八条短信两个电话我也没回,愤怒得嗷嗷直叫。
我在做头发呢,包包寄存了的嘛,哪知道手机响着响着没电了。
其实我们都知道对方不是故意的,但情绪来了,总需要宣泄的。
7、善意的谎言
我碰巧和相熟的男生去看电影了,想了想,对你说和女生去的。
你独自去了我们约好要一起去的地方,犹豫再三,对我说你哪都没去。
不愿让对方多想,却因为偶尔的疏忽,让对方想得更多。
8、寂寞
一个人不寂寞,想念一个人才寂寞。
你说,来,抱抱。于是我把自己裹在被窝里,闭上眼,恩,抱抱。
下班的路上,亲爱的、你会在身边留个我的位置么?
9、信念坍塌
我看到身边一对一对的,男生帮女生拿包包,在树荫下卿卿我我,周末还能一起爬山。
于是没忍住就对在地图对角线上的你发牢骚,其实是想听你的鼓励。
刚刚好你接到朋友异地恋分手倾诉的电话,那么容易就把自己带入了戏,无心的抱怨雪上加霜。
有时候折腾一下,只为了证明自己的重要性。哪知脆弱基础上的高楼只须多压上一根头发的重量,也许就崩溃了。
10、你的真心
人心隔肚皮,更何况我们还隔着千山万水。
当我完全了解以上所有困难,依然下定决心明知不可为而为之的时候,
却不知上一刻还信誓旦旦的你,又是什么时候突然铁了心非要放弃呢?
也许只是终于亲身经历,你才觉悟了,异地真的不是几个电话和信息可以解决的的问题。
很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘记的事情,就在我们念念不忘的日子里,被我们遗忘了。
那些曾经以为念念不忘的事情就在我们念念不忘的过程里,被我们遗忘了。

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