单方面苍白或者无力的抵制“分手后只能是仇人”–by豪迈(horror)

 

单方面苍白或者无力的抵制“分手后只能是仇人”

–by豪迈(horror)

都说分手后只能做仇人,曾经的我,乃至现在,依旧不敢苟同,只是却显得有些苍白和无力。

 

??? 这句话,是有一定得理由的,并非空穴来风。无论两个人因为什么不能在一起,总会是有观点或想法冲突的,不管是否能摆到桌面上。

 

这句话是从实际中总结出来的,没有100%的准确率,也有99%吧,或者说99.9%,即使是万足。那能说明什么?

 

??? 只是说明做朋友的可能不足万分之一,是结果,现实的结果。但不是必然,不是指导结果的理论,也许其中会有许多本来不必做仇人的因为这句话-这句有一定道理的话,而走向地狱。

 

??? 因与果,真的那么清楚吗?也许会有觉得没有可能,才不努力,因为不努力,才更加不可能。那不可能与最终的不可能,哪个才是结果呢?

 

??? 它不是理论的指导,至少不是我理论的指导。我只能无力或者苍白,单方面的抵制。不能说别人的对错,毕竟不是1+1。

 

??? 或许会和彼此的角色有关系吧,也许是甩与被甩不同;或者会和性格有关系吧;也获取会和性别有关系吧…

 

2010-12-06 #19:49:42?by豪迈(horror)


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