胡思乱想…处女情结–by豪迈(horror)

胡思乱想…处女情结

–by豪迈(horror)

原文:“可是,我们的男子们啊,你们如果没有丑恶的处女情节,那么女子怎么会走上这条龌龊之路?”

处女情结,真的丑恶吗?关于“再造处女膜”,究竟是处女情结的错,还是其他的什么?

在去年上心理学的时候,老师曾给我们讲“婚姻或者说家庭是人类社会特有的社会结构”。老师解释的原因是,由于人类的大脑发达,使得头骨非常大,不能完全发育就要分娩。因为如果等发育成熟,母体个子宫将不能承受,所以人类是早产儿。随之而来的,就需要艰辛的抚养工作,一人是难以维持的,所以就需要一个稳定的社会结构——家庭——来共同承担。这是家庭的由来。

还有另外一个说法,说小孩生出来,长得比较像父亲,这是由于只有这样才能得到父亲的全身心照顾。母亲很清楚是不是自己儿子,父亲则很难判断孩子是不是自己的。所以,有说法孩子长相比较像父亲(这是从网上日志中看来得),这是进化所得,有利于家庭的稳定。

那么,怎样才能保证家庭的稳定?无论男人女人,都在想自己的办法。这是时势,所以才有了处女情结,才有了“再造处女膜”。
关于处女情结和“再造处女膜”,这两者都是为了一个共同的期望,为了将来的婚姻或家庭稳定。处女情结是一种自我保护措施,“再造处女膜”才是一种造假。

“再造处女膜”的用户群是什么?绝不是那些已婚女人.是这个社会对待性行为的看法,尤其是婚前性行为。并不是因为处女情结…..

在此,我只想说,请大家慎重…

2008-05-16#13:01:xx?

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