[总002][传记系列001]*令人泣血的才子佳人—-《徐志摩与陆小曼》–豪迈(horror)

[总002][传记系列001]*令人泣血的才子佳人—-《徐志摩与陆小曼》

–豪迈(horror)

闲书信息(于中科院研究生院教学资料中心借阅)
题名: 徐志摩与陆小曼

作作者: 邹吉玲  出版社: 中国文史出版社
ISBN: 7-5034-1918-0  分类号: I247.5
索书号: I247.5/81  出版日期: 2007/01/01
 

总结语:今天,2008年1月20号,在最后一科考前,打开博客,里面刚好放到了《最浪漫的事》.这是我很喜欢的一首歌,于是禁不住感动了起来,想到了徐志摩和陆小曼的伤感.

    每个人,得到幸福都不容易,我们何不好好珍惜,不要等失去了才追悔.

    以前,在我的了解,只知道徐志摩是杰出的诗人,并且英年早逝,仅此而已.一次在图书馆结束时,在文学类(平时喜欢看文学有关的东西)下面发现了《徐志摩与陆小曼》,不禁拿起来翻了下.很想了解诗人的生活,所以就借了…

    现在回想起来最深的就是里面张幼仪的通情达理,林徽音与徐的无奈之局,以及徐与陆的久经磨难的曲折爱情.真没有想到,在诗人的背后,居然会有那么多令人伤感的往事.徐与三个女人之间的感情纠葛,无不感人.

    首先是第一个女人,张幼仪:封建家长包办的门当户对的发妻.这个女人生活在那个时代,却具有一般男人都没有的见识.是她鼓励徐出外读书,并为此在舅姑之间斡旋,甚至为她出国而挑起辛苦徐家的生活重担.这个男人出国后,却遇到了另一个女人,并因此与张提出了离婚,此时张已经为徐生有一子.而这个女人没有怨言,也没有怨恨,只因为她也接触到了新观念”自由恋爱”.其实她心里,是理解徐的,更确切地说,她是深爱徐的,不惜一切,在她心中”只要需幸福,她就满足了,并不需要徐的回报…”这是一个伟大的女人,是那个时代害了她,但她不后悔…

    上面提到了第二个女人,林徽音:她比徐要小好几岁,然而他们在英国一起学习,彼此间已经产生了倾慕.终于,是徐主动了,他在给林写了一封情书后,就去和留学的张离婚去了.然而,林由于没有勇气承担拆散徐与张的主因,就含泪和父亲回国了.为此,徐追到了国内,然而却发现林已经与徐的北大老师梁启超的儿子订婚,这个打击,不谓不大.徐只能用工作来填补这段煎熬时光.后来徐再婚后,夫妻不和时,林曾有首诗来安慰”这一定又是你的手指,轻弹着…”

    直到,徐迷上了北平交际名花陆小曼,才终于能从这段苦涩的痴恋中脱离出来,然而却又跳进了一个更为复杂的漩涡.因为此时,陆已经是有夫之妇了,同样是封建家长的操办.这样徐陆的结合将更为艰难.然而最令人伤感的是,两人在冲破重重障碍后,却没有得到徐氏家长的衷心认可.两人被迫前往上海谋生,就在这时,陆恋上了鸦片,两人有了隔阂,并未此毁了幸福.徐被迫到北京工作养家,并往返于京沪,终于,杰出的诗人永远的飞上了白云…

看着这经历,渐渐地理解了诗人,理解了生活.老子曾说”福兮,祸所伏;祸兮,福所倚”.

 

2008-01-20#11:30:xx(记于玉泉路宿舍835) [总002][传记系列001]

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