[转载]生活中的点滴蕴含大道理

2007-07-10#13:23转自:bbs.cugb.edu.cn

 

(1)知道自己「有限」的聪明
有一个聪明的男孩,有一天妈妈带着他到杂货店去买东西,老板看到这个可爱的小孩,就打开一罐糖果, 要小男孩自己拿一把糖果。但是这个男孩却没有任何的动作。几次的邀请之后,老板亲自抓了一大把糖果放进他的口袋中。回到家中,母亲很好奇的问小男孩, 为什么没有自己去抓糖果而要老板抓呢?小男孩回答得很妙:「因为我的手比较小呀!而老板的手比较大,所以他拿的一定比我拿的多很多!」

默想:这是一个聪明的孩子,他知道自己的有限,而更重要的,他也明白别人比自己强。凡事不只靠自己的力量,学会适时的依靠他人,是一种谦卑,更是一种聪明。

(2) 听的艺术
美国知名主持人 “林克莱特“ 一天访问一名小朋友, 问他说:「你长大后想要当什么呀?」小朋友天真的回答:「嗯…我要当飞机的驾驶员!」林克莱特接着问:「如果有一天,你的飞机飞到太平洋上空所有引擎都熄火了,你会怎么办?」小朋友想了想:「我会先告诉坐在飞机上的人绑好安全带,然后我挂上我的降落伞跳出去。」当在现场的观众笑的东倒西歪时,林克莱特继续着注视这孩子,想看他是不是自作聪明的家伙。没想到,接着孩子的两行热泪夺眶而出,这才使的林克莱特发觉这孩子的悲悯之情 远非笔墨所能形容。于是林克莱特问他说:「为甚么要这么做?」小孩的答案透露出一个孩子真挚的想法:「我要去拿燃料,我还要回来!!」「我还要回来!」。

你听到别人说话时……你真的听懂他说的意思吗?你懂吗?如果不懂,就请听别人说完吧,这就是「听的艺术」
1. 听话不要听一半。
2. 还有,不要把自己的意思,投射到别人所说的话上头。

(3) 散步的启示
上帝给我一个任务,叫我牵一只蜗牛去散步。我不能走得太快,蜗牛已经尽力爬,每次总是挪那么一点点。我催?,我唬?,我责备?蜗牛用抱歉的眼光看着我,彷佛说:「人家已经尽了全力!」我拉?,我扯,我甚至想踢?,蜗牛受了伤,?流着汗,喘着气,往前爬真奇怪,为什么上帝叫我牵一只蜗牛去散步?上帝啊!为什么?」天上一片安静。 「唉!也许上帝去了抓蜗牛!」好吧!松手吧!反正上帝不管了,我还管什么?任蜗牛往前爬,我在后面生闷气。咦?我闻到花香,原来这边有个花园。我感到微风吹来,原来夜里的风这么温柔。慢着!我听到鸟声,我听到虫鸣,我看到满天的星斗多亮丽。咦?以前怎么没有这些体会?我忽然想起来,莫非是我弄错了!原来上帝叫蜗牛牵我去散步。

你找到你的蜗牛了吗?偶尔出去散散步吧!

 

(4)你真的可以很自在
米兰昆德拉有一本书叫「生活在别处」,我对这五个字有很好的联想,我们的生活总是在远方,都在想: 如果明天我有钱,我就可以……。但是如果你现在赚少钱不快乐,就算你有再多的钱,我保证你也不会快乐;如果你一个人的时候不会自得其乐,即使嫁了人,娶了老婆,别人跟你一起一样不快乐;如果现在不懂得享生活,未来也不会享受生活。有人问什么叫做自由,所谓的自由就是: 你想要拒绝一个人的约会,已经不需要任何理由,你有权力过自己要过的生活,有权力去自己要去的地方。其实生活很简单。男人跟女人都很喜欢在自己的人生设一个底线,比如说:我25岁一定要结婚,26岁一定生孩子, 30岁时一定要一男一女,31岁的时候一定要有房子,所以很多决定就很草率。如果刚开始你找的那个人就不对,往后再怎么努力都不对;有时候,我们常常会觉得婚结了,所有问题就没了,那如果结了婚还有问题,就赶快把小孩生一生,其实你的问题在这个阶段没解决,在下个阶段只会变大;你对未来不用期待太多,期待太多……老实说挫折感会很深, 不如看看你现在做什么事情,会让你觉得很自在,吸收到很多的东西,那个时候你才会觉得人生真的很充实。
一个人如果太努力在活给别人看,就会痛苦得不得了,今天如果你相信自己做得还不错,不在乎别人怎么看你的时候, 你真的可以很自在。

(5) 失去与拥有
有位企业家在商场上有着惊人的成就。当他在事业达到巅峰的时候,有一天陪同他的父亲,到一家高贵的餐厅用餐,现场有一位琴艺不凡的小提琴手正在为大家演奏。这位企业家在聆赏之余,想起当年自己也曾学过琴,而且几乎为之疯狂,便对他父亲说:「如果我从前好好学琴的话,现在也许就会在这儿演奏了。「是呀,孩子,」他父亲回答,「不过那样的话,你现在就不会在这儿用餐了。」

 

默想:我们常为失去的机会或成就而嗟叹,但往往忘了为现在所拥有的感恩。


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