[转载]轮回不是浪漫的诗篇——我宁愿你对我说,“你不是我的幸福”

[转]轮回不是浪漫的诗篇
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注记:我宁愿你对我说,“你不是我的幸福”——豪迈(horror)

??有一种美丽叫做放弃,每一次默默的放弃,放弃某个心仪已久却无缘份的朋友,放弃某种投入却无收获的事,放弃某种心灵的期望,放弃某种思想,这时就会生出一种伤感,然而这种伤感并不妨碍我们去重新开始,在新的时空内将音乐重听一遍,将故事再说一遍!因为这是一种自然的告别与放弃,它富有超脱精神,因而伤感得美丽!曾经有种感觉,想让它成为永远。过了许多年,才发现它已渐渐消逝了。后来悟出:原来把握在手的不一定就是我们真正拥有的,我们所拥有的也不一定就是我们真正铭刻在心的!继而明白人生很多时候需要一种对宁静的关照和自觉的放弃!世间有太多的美好的事物,美好的人。对没有拥有的美好,我们一直在苦苦地向往与追求。为了获得,忙忙碌碌,真正的所需所想往往要在经历许多以后才会明白,甚至穷尽一生也不知所终!而对已经拥有的美好,我们又因为常常得而复失的经历而存在一份忐忑与担心。夕阳易逝的叹息,花开花落的烦恼,人生本是不快乐的!因为拥有的时候,我们也许正在失去,而放弃的时候,我们也许又在重新获得。对万事万物,我们其实都不可能有绝对的把握。如果刻意去追逐与拥有,就很难走出外物继而走出自己,人生那种不由自主的悲哀与伤感会更加沉重!明白的人懂得放弃,真情的人懂得牺牲,幸福的人懂得超脱!当若干年后我们知道自己所喜爱的人仍好好地生活,我们会更加心满意足!“我不是因你而来到这个世界,却是因为你而更加眷恋这个世界。如果能和你在一起,我会对这个世界满怀感激,如果不能和你在一起,我会默默地走开,却仍然不会失掉对这个世界的爱和感激――感激上天让我与你相遇与你别离,完美了我的生命!”生命给了我们无尽的悲哀,也给了我们永远的答案。于是,安然一份放弃,固守一份超脱!不管红尘世俗的生活如何变迁,不管个人选择的方式如何,更不管握在手中的东西轻重如何,我们虽逃避也勇敢,虽伤感也欣慰!我们像往常一样向生活的深处走去,我们像往常一样在逐步放弃,又逐步坚定!

??鱼说:你看不见我眼中的泪,因为我在水中。水说:我能感觉得到你的泪,因为你在我心中。。

??在人类的各种欲望中,爱情是最难割舍的一种,有时觉得这种爱情是无私的,可是这是否是另外一种形式的“情痴”?痴情是否也是一种愚痴?“观音菩萨妙难思,救渡众生出爱河,顶戴华冠无量寿,口中常念陀罗尼。左手执持八德水,右手捻来杨柳枝,若人称念观世音,火坑变做白莲池。”“业不重不生娑婆,爱不断不生净土。”

??在网上,常常看到这样一句很诗意的词语:“前世佛前五百次回眸,才换得今生匆匆的擦肩……”。在身边,常常听到这样一句很豪迈的誓言:“相约来世,恩爱永远……”。甚至,更有人说:“为了这份情和爱,我不要去极乐,我要去轮回、去下一世践约……”。殊不知,似这般苦缠、苦思、苦恋、苦迷,哪里保证得了自己抑或对方下一世还得人身、或者同在一道?!——这呐喊声,摇不醒迷醉的痴人,有人甚至说:“只要可以轮回,哪怕做树、做草、做云、做风,也要依偎在他(她)的身边……”。好令人感动啊!只是,知道不知道,轮回是多么的苦难?!知不知道,人身是多么的难得?!“做树、做草、做云、做风”?谁能把握在这残酷的轮回中,自己究竟会做什么?!也许,到那时,你做了猫,他(她)做了鼠,成为一对不共戴天的仇敌!到那时,还能“厮守”么?那时的厮守,比今世的离别、相思更加恐怖!到头来,究竟约的是什么?守的是什么?!如果斩断这情缘、脱离这轮回,还会有这些“剪不断、理还乱”的愁绪么?还会有这些今生、来世的渺茫期盼和苦苦忧思么?到那时,相约可以如意,携手可以同行;到那时,菩提之心息息相通,慈悲大愿在在相应。这“约”,才远离了痛苦;这“守”,才真正永恒!!世人迷茫,尚可毋究;佛子迷茫,实难姑息!想想吧:“人身难得今已得,佛法难闻今已闻;此身不向今生度,更待何生度此身”。这,不仅是嘴上说的,不仅是心上想的;这,是应该溶化在我们的脑海内、血液中、行动上、生命里的……

??轮回不是浪漫的诗篇!!愿世人觉醒!愿佛子共勉!最浪漫不过相约在极乐!

 

2007-07-08#15:50:xx

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